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Most of you know about my ultimate goal for 2010 – that is to be the NEW and IMPROVED OPRAH – had a discussion recently with a business associate about how important it is to have friends that you can count on when you get as big as Oprah, and I don’t mean her WEIGHT, but her enormous popularity and her tremendous impact she has on people .
How do you develop those relationships on your way to the top? How do you find those that you can trust that will stick with you through the thick and thin of things no matter what? I am finding out it’s a process. It’s a weeding process.
Here is something I read earlier today:
When you learn to create your business in the new model, then people thank you for being successful. They thank you for who you are and what you’ve created. (You get to thank them too!)
Gratitude is what it’s all about folks. Being grateful for the friends you have, and more than that LETTING THEM KNOW that you appreciate them. Those that fall into that category and turn around and thank you for being successful instead of being jealous of your success? Those are the ones that you want around.
Gayle is that to Oprah.
Who is YOUR Gayle? Who is happy for the success you have had with weight loss? Who is by your side no matter what, no matter what you can give back, who is THRILLED for your accomplishments and THANKS you for being so successful, because when it comes right down to the brass tax? It’s all about gratitude.
If you cannot accept your friends being successful, then you have really got to look inside yourself and figure out why not.
If you are grateful for your friends successes, then it will come back to you ten fold.
Just try it.
Jealousy is such an ugly thing.